Ego and Self-Respect

Ego and self-respect

Ego and self respect look different but they are interconnected. As we see that we work for our self respect but originally we are in the shadow of ego. Ego and self-respect run together, a single thing which separates them is negativity.

 Every man loves his self respect. He doesn’t want to lose it at any cost. When the circumstances changes. he found him in a situation that he cannot handle this. At that time, he feels a fear that he might lose his self respect his prestige, integrity or dignity.

     It is the time when self respect changes into ego. When someone feels that he builds his cocoon. Ego starts to take place of self-respect. He don’t show respect to others. his attitude doesn’t stop far the persons who are hitting his self respect. He thinks everyone his enemy. The circumstances which encircle him in a difficult situation are caused by everyone.

Egoistic person build cysts around his personality.  This thing, not only destroy his personality and also his self respect. This destruction never ends at any point throughout his life. Although this thing vary from person to person but lot of things remains the same.

What is the solution of this whole situation? The circumstances prevailing in the society and the sufferer might be different. The solution is the same.

If it handle on individual level it will be more effective. As a society or a nation it is not so easy. To solve this social problem or social thought we have to adopt following means.

·        Education

·       Respecting religious values.

·        Changing our behavior towards our fellow human beings.

   Education is the main way which can open any lock of any social problem. By educating people creates an environment of social brotherhood between different classes of society.

 If we respect religion values it will also help to control different factors effecting ego. Religion is the tool which binds us tightly. It controls our hearts and souls. If we use it on an individual level it can control this thing from its start. Thirdly is our behavior towards fellow human beings. If we just pay respect to our other fellows we have no fear of losing self-respect. If we respect others in response we get respect. It is more effective than anything else as we are doing it on individual level. anything which starts from base is more effective and stronger. It will reflect in whole society.