Ego

Ego

It is man’s nature that he has an ego to some extent .But I want to discuss here that what is ego? What are the effects of it in shaping of human personality? In my view ego is destructive aspects of personality. There are many things which can be used to discuss this topic but I will just discuss love aspects.                             

             Ego starts when we are still a child we don’t know what is this word?
What are the people around us? As we grow our parents and relatives start to feed ego in us either in love, hate or to build our personality. But they don’t know what they doing are? They do it intentional or unintentionally and when we become young and older now they think that some gapes are left untouched or there are some flaws and faults which are damaging personality. But they can’t fix this now and we have to move on with these through the rest of our life. We develop lot of things, overconfidence, lack of confidence and ego. They all have adverse effects on our whole life.

                  The other thing which made us egoistic is our society. As a human society is essential to live and prosper but there always exist a competitor in different walks of life. Due to this ego develops with the passage of time. But this ego is more dangerous than the others. Because this ego don’t stand at a place. It engulfs the whole society and different societies hate each other and a peace between them comes to an end. Because in this ego rivalry everyone wants the other to defeat or to take under his control. Due to this the progress of nation or society or of a man stop or slows down .Because they start to use their resources on destruct ions.

                      Egoistic person ruins his life. He develops a strong cyst around him. He thinks that he is always right. He is doing right and he is the best. He quarrels on meaningless things or stays silent in his cocoon and starts to burn his inner. Egoistic person lose his relations very soon. Nobody loves him. Nobody wants him. He loses his friends when they come to know about his nature. Egoistic develops a possessive nature. Due to his possessive nature people stays at a distance from him.

                 In short ego creates distance among relation and bonding between different walks of life weaken. Love, kindness and care abolished. Hatred develops and which runs social norms. We can tackle this situation by controlling our feelings and temper. This way is to act upon our religion. It doesn't mean of one religion. Every religion of world preaches love (peace).If everyone acts upon its religion society would be able to withstand against every evil.